Rekindle the Spark!
Rebuild your connection. Restore your emotional and physical intimacy.
A clear 9-step program for committed couples who feel distant–and want to find their way back to each other. Scroll to see how it works.
Rekindle the Spark!
Rebuild your connection. Restore your emotional and physical intimacy.
A clear 9-step program for committed couples who feel distant–and want to find their way back to each other. Scroll to see how it works.
Is this what you’re facing in your relationship?
You still love each other… but the spark is fading.
Conversations feel harder, shorter or more tense.
Intimacy feels awkward, pressured or maybe even nonexistent.
You feel like roommates instead of partners.
You want to reconnect, but you don’t know how anymore.
If any of this feels familiar, you're not alone–and you're not stuck... We can help!
Reigniting Passion gives you everything you need to rebuild closeness, intimacy, and desire–step by step.
This isn't a collection of random videos or vague advice. It's a structured, transformative, easy-to-follow system created for committed couples who love each other but:
Feel disconnected or emotionally distant.
Want more physical intimacy and confidence in the relationship.
Struggle with differences in levels of desire.
Want to communicate without defensiveness.
Feel like the spark is fading.
Want a clear path forward.
The program is delivered through transformational tools you can use together at home:
9 easy-to-follow program steps.
32 bite-sized video lessons.
23 transformational exercises to do together.
Guided partner conversations
Printable worksheets
Private online group for couples to ask questions, share progress and receive peer support.
Lifetime access to program content and group coaching sessions.
You may be wondering… Why nine steps? Why not twenty? Or three?
Because after 30 years of working with couples, Dr. Molle discovered that there are nine essential shifts couples must experience for intimacy to return–and for closeness to grow.
So Reigniting Passion has nine steps.
Every step builds on the one before it.
Every step moves you closer to each other.
And because the steps are simple, most couples can complete the program in about 30 days, even with busy schedules.
But if you need more time, you have it. There is no pressure and no deadline.
What’s inside the Reigniting Passion 9-step program…
STEP 1: PARTNER’S LAUNCHPAD
The first step in any journey between partners is committing to it together and setting your destination.
Partner's Launchpad helps couples agree on a plan to work the program together and outline specific needs and desires they want fulfilled to restore intimacy and passion.
You'll experience:
Relief that you're finally doing something to restore your connection.
Clarity about moving forward as each partner shares what they want.
Focus as you agree on a plan to set time aside to make intimacy a priority moving forward.
STEP 2: COMMUNICATION CLINIC
Failed communication is often the earliest cause of connection breakdown.
Communication Clinic helps you master important communication skills in the relationship so you both feel fully heard and understood.
It's the basis for success in all the later steps.
You will learn:
How to bring yourselves fully present during communication so you really hear each other.
Powerful active listening techniques that facilitate better communication and build trust.
How to speak each other's "language of love" to deepen your romantic connection.
STEP 3: HEART GRAND OPENING
When there is distance between you, and your connection is not close or intimate, it is time to reopen your hearts to each other.
This step guides you to experience increased closeness and create a fresh start on establishing intimacy. That intimacy is the foundation for passion to flourish once again.
You'll experience:
Feeling new-found gratitude for each other.
Giving and receiving safe, gentle and affectionate touch.
The freedom of having choices about how you regard your relationship.
Seeing each other as your beloved once again.
STEP 4: DEEPER CONNECTIONS
Couples often repeat the same unhelpful patterns–not because they want to, but because they aren't aware or don't know how to stop them.
Deeper Connections sets the stage for passion by helping you forge a stronger relationship connection, greater love and attraction.
You'll discover how to:
Clear out negative emotions, making room for spontaneous, alive feelings.
Create new, healthier behavior patterns that strengthen your everyday love connection.
Handle difficult issues so they don't pose ongoing barriers to intimacy. moving forward.
STEP 5: AVOID PASSION INHIBITORS
The foundation for passion starts long before sexual intimacy.
In fact, it's grounded in what happens in your everyday connection.
This step helps you become aware of what inhibits passion and guides you to explore what you can each do to improve intimacy.
You'll understand:
What blocks passion and intimacy for each other.
How to deal with passion inhibitors, and reduce or eliminate their impact.
More effective ways to resolve behavioral barriers to connection.
STEP 6: MASTER PASSION BUILDERS
When actions or conditions that excite one or both partners are missing, lovemaking feels routine or may even stop altogether.
This step helps couples understand that everyone's desire works differently, and it supports you in understanding what turns each other on.
You'll learn:
How to become fully present in your body.
About the range of everyday passion builders.
How to comfortably communicate about preferences with your
partner.
STEP 7: HEAT MADE TO ORDER
Now emotional safety and physical closeness begin working together.
This step sets the stage for each of you to freely express now what you want and don't want during lovemaking.
Eliminates upsetting, awkward conversations later when you least want to have them.
You'll learn:
How to communicate intimate preferences and desires without embarrassment.
How to give and receive the perfect kiss for each other.
How to create positive, joyful intimate experiences for and with each other.
STEP 8: SETTING OFF SPARKS
Initiating lovemaking without being turned on is not satisfying, and may even turn one or both partners off from engaging.
In this step, you'll build a sexual "charge" that creates a heightened feeling of readiness and excitement for both partners as they engage in lovemaking.
You'll experience:
The pleasure of designing your ideal conditions for lovemaking.
Increasing and containing sexual energy in your bodies.
Being physically ready in a way that supports greater release.
STEP 9: BUILDING THE BONFIRE
Partners who don't talk about their sexual interactions miss the opportunity to understand what worked and what could work better.
This step guides you to communicate openly with each other about your lovemaking so you can make future experiences more enjoyable.
You'll enjoy:
Greater certainty that you understand each other's needs more clearly.
Becoming better lovers and giving each other more during lovemaking.
Even greater ease when discussing your physical intimacy with each other.
This isn't therapy or shallow advice. This is intimate, expert guidance you can apply together at home.
Created by a couples and sex therapist–but designed to be followed privately, gently and at your own pace.
It's based on Dr. Barbara's work over several decades as a psychotherapist combined with proven best practices used by leading therapists and coaches today.
You get:
A clear, structured path
No awkward sessions
No judgment
No pressure
No endless weekly appointments
One-time investment instead of endless session fees
No waiting for change
Instead, the program leads you through just the right steps, in the right order, for you to do together
Most couples complete the program in about 30 days...
But you can move as quickly or as slowly as you want.
Your pace is the right pace, and you have lifetime access.
Who this program
is for…
The perfect program for committed couples who love each other but...
Feel emotionally or physically disconnected.
Want to restore intimacy and desire.
Prefer a private, guided approach.
Want to avoid long, expensive therapy.
Are willing to do the 9 program steps together.
Want to feel close, valued and connected again.
If you're longing for more closeness… this will help you get there.
This program is not appropriate
if any of the following apply:
There is active abuse, addiction, ongoing infidelity or dishonesty.
Either partner feels unsafe in the relationship.
Either partner refuses to participate or is not
committed to the relationship working.
Mental illness or significant psychological
conditions–one or both suffer from bipolar, deep depression, paranoia, etc.
Significant trauma requires individual therapy first.
About your Reigniting Passion program guides
Created by Dr. Barbara Molle
Former couples and sex therapist with more than 30 years of professional experience. Specialist in body-mind-soul psychotherapy.
Supported by Tim Smith
Co-creator, program facilitator and relational coach with an extensive background in personal development and communication work.
Together, we help couples rebuild their emotional and physical connection gently and compassionately.
Your relationship is worth fighting for–and reconnecting doesn't have to be confusing, awkward or overwhelming.
The Value You Get...
A complete, step-by-step
system to bring back the emo-tional closeness, comfort and intimacy…
Without endless costly counseling sessions…
Without scheduling conflicts… and without guesswork.
Instead of Therapy...
Most couples spend $2,500 - $4,000 in just a few months of counseling.
This program gives you the
tools you need for life.
No subscriptions. No hidden fees.
Your Investment
Just one decision that can
change the way you love each other forever.
And instead of ongoing therapy fees, you get lifetime access. All updates included.
$1,997
Reigniting Passion is your guided path back to closeness, intimacy and connection.
If you're ready to feel like loving partners again–emotionally, physically and intimately–we're here to support you every step of the way. Join now and save 65% with Early Access Couples pricing!
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